February 20, 2026





A Letter To My Valentine...



What made me fall in love, and some of my favorite pictures from our most recent adventures together.





My husband says he would rather make the people he loves feel special all year round than celebrate just because it’s a holiday on the calendar. Still, he brought home flowers this past Valentine’s Day to surprise me.


I never participated in Valentine’s Day before I met Micheal. Our first Valentine’s Day as a couple, he bought me flowers and Cheetos, and I cried for so long because nobody had ever done that for me before. It made me feel like a queen. It wasn’t really about the flowers, but the Cheetos.


Just kidding… it was the gesture. Claiming me, Abby Kay, as the one he wanted to be with on a day about love.


When we first met, we talked for hours on end. It felt like a movie. We started spending a lot of time together, and we argued about plenty of trivial things, but we stuck together through whatever came our way. We got sober together, rescued animals together, moved to a new place, changed jobs, learned new skills, traveled, and went through so many stressful, crazy, wonderful, and fun things as a team. We make THE BEST team. It is so cheesy and I am pretty sure it makes me a “pick me,” but I’ll take it because it ended in a life beyond my wildest dreams. One full of love, adventures, and so much forward progress.


I can't even say why I fell in love aside from we were meant to be. I am so glad we found each other in this big world. Below are some pictures from our recent adventures. I love exploring with you, Micheal!


(Another reason Valentine’s Day is special… and we both agree this is the biggest reason to celebrate. On our first married Valentine’s Day, I told him I would never ask for anything ever again if he let me get a free dog I found on Craigslist, and that is the story of how we got our Reginald. Happy 7th Gotcha Day to our Reggie Spaghetti!)